You'll notice that I'm using a different Blogger ID pic when I comment. Gone is my Hulk avatar.
It was only a matter of time before someone, riding a train somewhere, or sitting all cozy in an office tower, clicked on a post and recognized either themselves, co-workers, train buddies, siblings, the guy that sells you milk, etc., and got super-mad. Got all righteous and gasp, called me a bully.
This website would be nothing without the pictorials. I do my best to obscure faces. I myself am forever immortalized in a group photo for what was the grand opening of The Docks nightclub wearing a hairstyle that really didn't suit me and an outfit that my best friend should have slapped off my body. I didn't mind having my picture taken. I was in a public place after all. What I did mind was that my face was clearly distinguishable. This picture became a poster. And then it became a nightmare. There's nothing like having your mom call you up months later, because she had taken the subway back from a doctor's appointment, to ask you if it's you who is half-dressed in a poster for a nightclub wearing a tube top you had no business wearing. Ah, 1997. I don't miss ya. But I sure learned from ya.
So to make it fair, I have put up a photo of myself in an an obscured pose.
Now we're even.
This is all you're gonna get.
ReplyDeleteNice Farrah Fawcet fly-away!
ReplyDeleteYou know "bully accuser" is gonna print this out and sit beside everyone in profile comparing the picture. Then what?
ReplyDeleteBa ha ha ha hahahahahahhahahaha
Ok,but where's the Dock's photo?
ReplyDeleteI miss that place, best patio party on earth
Al,
ReplyDeleteI hope there's a big landfill where that poster rests at the very bottom...
The ttc riff-raff need to calm down.
ReplyDeleteGuess it was the goatee?
I had to reconsider a comment made by an alleged co-worker who claimed to recognize the person.
ReplyDeleteso you deleted it.
ReplyDeleteYes. I do have a soul.
ReplyDeletepoeple can misconstrue things sometimes. also, people need to relax. it's not like u posted his name, employer,. address etc. sheesh
ReplyDeleteI dont get it, what dfid you delete?
ReplyDeletedid I miss a post??
She deleted a post from Friday about the TTC Riff-Raff sitting on floor of a GO Train.
ReplyDeleteI remember a "co-worker" of his commentating on the site that s/he knew him and that he was a nice guy.
It's a shame how some people ruin it for others.
It was a pretty clear photo. It's best to poke fun at people without a face. Once there's a face, it becomes personal for some people. It's like that People of Public Transit website. I don't CJ should stoop to that level.
ReplyDeleteNever.
ReplyDeleteI took the pic of the guy and sent it to CJ. He may be a nice guy but I felt kinda uncomfortable with him spead out at my feet. I was wearing a dress and all, the train was packed and he took up that space on the floor...so I didn't get the nice-guy vibe from him. I got the inconsiderate moron vibe from him. I guess everybody deserves a second chance.
ReplyDeleteNow, having read what Kary's mentioned, that tidbit of information changes things, especially the perspective - in more ways than one.
ReplyDeleteThe harassment leveled at me over that photo merits the photo staying off the site but if I had known, or considered how some guy sitting on the floor can cause a woman to feel uncomfortable if she is wearing a skirt, I would have just ignored the protests.
I now feel even more strongly that sitting your plaid-covered ass on the floor of a crowded train still isn't right. I don't care if volunteer at the soup kitten and knit scarves for orphaned kittens, that's just creepy.
CJ rules
ReplyDeleteknit scarves for orphaned kittens
ReplyDeleteAwesome.